I hate to use that word, “depression”. It evokes in all of us a sense of utter sadness and an inability to deal with our lives or external circumstances. Since a third of all people in the Western world have been diagnosed with depression at some time of the other, […]
Yearly Archives: 2011
There is a moment in all our lives as crossdressers where things don’t work out as we expect. For many crossdressers, it’s simply impossible to “reveal themselves” and thus this mean that there is no way, ever, to predict when there will be an opportunity to dress again. For us […]
My apologies, but due to excessive spamming the old social networking site at this domain was shut down. More news to follow!
I believe I mentioned before that in my country the legislation has been changed to allow transgendered people to go through transition much faster, change their paperwork to reflect their legal names, even during pre-op (and surgery is not any more a requirement to legally change your name and gender), […]
Some of you might know that I have been letting my fingernails grow naturally. After much filing, they’re now at pretty much the same length as some of my “fake” nails which I have been using for so many years! This was the result of a chat with one recent […]
MtF transexuals in the past had to deal with an additional issue after all the complexities of their long process: will they be able to sustain themselves with their former work? The question is actually a hard one. Not so long ago, most MtF transexuals had few options left beyond […]
While I was on my short “forced” vacations, I had brought with me a PDF copy of Richard Ekins’ Male Femaling: A grounded theory approach to cross-dressing and sex-changing. It’s an academic study from 15 years ago, and thus slightly outdated, which tries to formulate a framework for discussing transgenderism, travestism, […]
Well, I’m back. Probably I’ll be a bit more easy-going in the next few weeks, and definitely I won’t be able to stay up for so long when I’m dressed (sorry, erin and deanna! Doctor’s orders!), but the exams I made show that whatever happened, it was not dramatically bad. […]
Dear friends, Since I log in to the usual social networking sites little (including Multiply), but just turn on Yahoo/MSN/Skype/whatever when I’m dressed, sometimes, when a few weeks elapse since the last time I’ve talked to you online, a few of you get worried about me, because I don’t give […]
There is an old joke (of somewhat bad taste…) about the difference between a crossdresser and a transexual: “Five years”. The “joke” is that current research has shown that gender identity is a little less constrained and limited than it used to be defined, say, a decade ago. A “classical […]