Am I merely a crossdresser?

There is an old joke (of somewhat bad taste…) about the difference between a crossdresser and a transexual: “Five years”. The “joke” is that current research has shown that gender identity is a little less constrained and limited than it used to be defined, say, a decade ago. A “classical […]

A rather intense week

It’s been a rather strange week. Not necessarily bad. For some reason, there are times when I guess that we all reflect a bit more about ourselves. I use the word “reflect” neutrally: not really “brooding” in the depressive sense of the word, but really just think about what makes […]

Christmas treats and driving as Sandra

As you know, I’ve been insanely busy the past weeks, and to make matters worse, the few days off I had were either too cold or my Significant Other wanted to go out for one reason or the other. So I haven’t managed to dress at all; we’ll see if […]

Reading too much causes confusion :)

One of the things that always fascinated me from my teen days is the subject ofidentity, and since it’s something that pretty much all crossdressers have to face at some time in their lives, I love to think and write about it. This past weekend, sadly, I had no time […]

When do you know you’ve crossed the line?

Perhaps during the past year or so I have been rather more introspective than usually. It shouldn’t be surprising: I’ve been picking up a serious practice of Buddhism according to the teachings of a genuine teacher (not by just reading a book or visiting all those New Age groups who worship […]

Buying new breastforms…

When I started crossdressing, the first question I had was how to get minimally realistic breasts. Like probably most of you crossdressers, just putting on a (borrowed) bra was not enough. The first thing that comes to mind is to use some rolled-up socks, but, of course, while the padding […]

Going out again, but… grounded for a few months

This Sunday I was bold again. It was about 3 AM in the morning and I decided I should go out and drive a bit once more. But this time I decided to ask for my partner’s blessing first! She was already in bed, and I guess she was so […]

How do we get crossdressing to become socially acceptable?

Most of you who are reading this (but not all!) are crossdressing fetishists, either as crossdressers themselves, or simply as people who enjoy watching crossdressers. Fetishism is as natural as, well, rain falling from clouds — we all have it, even if we refuse to assume it. The most straight […]

The thrill of going out!

Well, I did it again 🙂 Last Sunday I finally decided I could not remain at home longer without ever having a chance to go out. It was late in the evening — or should I say morning?? — around 5 AM when I finally went out for a short […]

What would I do if I woke up as a genetic female? :)

I’m not really fond of Facebook, but sometimes I find some amusing things there. The last one actually made me think quite a lot before commenting. It was posted on the Crossdressers group, and it was an apparently simple question: “If you woke up as a girl tomorrow, what are the top three […]