Yearly Archives: 2013

11 posts


The Wikipedia has some interesting definitions about narcissism — briefly put, a condition where you’re hopelessly in love with your own image. Specifically, Wikipedia quotes Hotchkiss’ seven deadly sins of narcissism: Shamelessness: Shame is the feeling that lurks beneath all unhealthy narcissism, and the inability to process shame in healthy […]

Both sides of the coin

Buddhist practice is tough; do it long enough, and you really start to question everything — specially one’s own ideas, which is precisely what it is supposed to achieve. I can say that sometimes I’m often even more “confused”. Let me try to explain! Gender is actually irrelevant for Buddhist […]

Great Expectations

9 AM. Woke up to a perfect day for crossdressing: no meetings, no terrible deadlines, no people pestering me to do things on their behalf. The sun was shining, but still cold, and a promise of some rain showers later. Still, it was better than nothing. Got my breakfast while […]

Difficult choices

One full month without dressing. That’s what I had to cope with. When I look at that sentence, I have to look back to the past 7 years or so, when dressing became something regular — usually, every week or so. Sometimes twice per week; sometimes only every other week. […]