Comments on: Why I love being a woman

By: Sandra M. Lopes

Sandra M. Lopes — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 21:22:22 +0000

In reply to Erin S.

The thing about the 'thrill of the hunt' is definitely not my own idea, I just got that from a self-help guide for women to learn how to catch men 🙂 But it definitely 'rings true'. And yes, I also had that feeling when reading it for the first time: it should have been so obvious…

As for being a counselor… naaah not really. It's easy to be one for the 'easy' or 'obvious' cases, but I'm always amazed how they manage to help so many different people, specially the 'tough' cases.

An advocate for 'girls like us' is something I'd certainly love to be; it would definitely be something I'd enjoy. Unfortunately, I was born in the wrong life for that 🙂

By: Sandra M. Lopes

Sandra M. Lopes — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 21:19:16 +0000

In reply to Erin S. Erin, I'm really not surprised... I think this might be common with many (most?) T-girls like us. And I wish I had seen that show of yours hehe

By: Erin S

Erin S — Tue, 04 Mar 2014 19:41:28 +0000

It is hard to not succumb to the addictive aspects that we get when presenting as girls, thats sooo true, and I am one of the most endearing fans you have (or i like to think I am) and it is exactly as you say – it is sometimes the thrill of the hunt. Having read that, it kind of makes me feel stupid for not being able to recognize that so much earlier, because I am sure that is what started me down our road years ago. More later, as always. xx

PS I still think you missed your calling to be a counselor and advocate for us "girls"

Love ya Erin

By: Erin S

Erin S — Tue, 04 Mar 2014 19:41:16 +0000

I can SOOO relate to most of what you have to say in this Sandra, given that I as well would consider myself the shy, non-descript male that was easily more comfortable on the outer fringes of all the social groups when a teenager. It was as if I just didn't fit in, and therefore lacked any sense of confidence in myself. No wonder then , as you have so graciously identified, do we as CD's crave the attention that comes from dressing. In your case, to add to the argument, I recall early on in my days of dressing that after starting with webcam shows, i opted once to just do a heels, stockings broadcast, and OMG, i almost had more attention than i had ever had before.